Wednesday, November 26, 2008

2008 American Music Awards...

this past Sunday winners of the 36th annual AMAs were announced in a show that featured a record-breaking 19 performances and music celebs galore...

Kanye West took home 2 AMAs including 'Favorite Male Rap/Hip Hop Artist' and 'Favorite Rap/Hip Hop Album'


But the most hardware went to 19 year-old phenom Chris Brown...including 'Favorite Artist of the Year.'


Why should you know? Because - unlike the Grammys - the AMAs are voted by the people...excuse me...by teenagers via the internet! Who else are teens listening to? Below are the results:

Pop/Rock Category
  • Favorite Male Artist: Chris Brown
  • Favorite Female Artist: Rihanna
  • Favorite Band, Duo or Group: Daughtry
  • Favorite Album: "As I Am" by Alicia Keys
Country Category
  • Favorite Male Artist: Brad Paisley
  • Favorite Female Artist: Taylor Swift
  • Favorite Band, Duo or Group: Rascal Flatts
  • Favorite Album: "Carnival Ride" by Carrie Underwood
Soul/Rhythm & Blues Category
  • Favorite Male Artist: Chris Brown
  • Favorite Female Artist: Rihanna
  • Favorite Album: "As I Am" by Alicia Keys
Rap/Hip Hop Category
  • Favorite Male Artist: Kanye West
  • Favorite Band, Duo or Group: Three 6 Mafia
  • Favorite Album: "Graduation" by Kanye West
Adult Contemporary
  • Favorite Artist: Jordin Sparks
Alternative Rock Music
  • Linkin Park
Contemporary Inspirational
  • Third Day
T-Mobile Favorite Breakthrough Artist
  • Jonas Brothers

Thursday, November 20, 2008

twilight...

is here...


Starting at 12:01 am tonight...theaters across the nation will be engulfed with teenagers anticipating the highly acclaimed release of 'Twilight.' As one writer comments..."if you haven't heard of Twilight, what rock have you been living under?"

This summer I sought out several new reads and while perusing the shelves of Tattered Cover came across the intriguing storyline of 'Twilight'...a modern day remix of Romeo and Juliet...with vampires. And now having read the books, can hardly disagree with the millions who have been captivated by the world author Stephenie Meyers has created...the 4 book series is one interwoven page-turner! But for several million teenage girls...the story of 'Twilight' has become an obsession.

'Twilight' tells the story of Bella Swan and Edward Cullen - a forbidden love story between a 'plain, simple' girl and an 'impossibly beautiful, perfect' vampire.

Richard Corliss of the 'Times' writes (note the 'obsession')...

"You needn't read 'Twilight' to know where its secret pulses reside. Just see the movie version and listen to the reactions of the girls in the theater. There's an audible shiver as they first spy the teen vampire Edward Cullen, his impossibly gorgeous face caked in a mime's pallor, sitting in biology class next to young Bella Swan. When he holds an apple in his hands to present to her - the novel's cover image - the girls emit an awestruck sigh, as if they'd just seen Zac Efron in the flesh or a puppy on YouTube."

Vampires are not the central focus of 'Twilight'...love is. And what estrogen-crazed teenage girl isn't seeking "love?" Any wonder why High School Musical is so intensely popular? It's not "just" the songs!

While 'Twilight' offers something much deeper than the more recent teen ventures of 'Superbad' and "sex, sex, sex...and more sex," the line between love and lust is often more blurred than we imagine. And the fascination between Bella and Edward often flirts with the line between the two...a line teenagers themselves flirt with often. One writer even describes teen's fascination with the novels and movie as "innocent lust." Is there such a thing?

'Twilight' has several redeeming characteristics and is a welcome change from the sex-crazed, grossly-inappropriate humor Hollywood has produced the last several years...but raises important questions about love...and about lust. Ask your teen where characteristics of love present themselves in the book, and more importantly, where characteristics of lust can be seen.

The reality is teenagers are experiencing feelings of both love and lust...and distinguishing the difference between the two is critical - start the conversation at home! Let's not stay hidden 'beneath the rocks'

Thursday, November 13, 2008

Batman and Jesus...

So far...2008 has belonged to the superheroes!

While the latest Bond installment and a vampire novel-made-movie remain, the highest grossing movies to date include...
  1. The Dark Knight
  2. Iron Man
  3. Indiana Jones 4
  4. Hancock

Together these 4 raked in over 1.3 billion dollars! Hollywood is tremendously influential in our culture and it's important that we know the movies teens watch and engage with the storylines, characters, morals and values being taught.

Take the top 2 movies of 2008 for example...

The Dark Knight follows Batman Begins original storyline highlighted by the late Heath Ledger's Oscar worthy portrayal of 'the Joker.' It's premise? While Batman continues the fight for justice in crime-ridden Gotham...the Joker believes that the world is inherently evil and fights to reveal the hidden darkness in everyone, including Batman.


All have sinned and fallen short of the glory of God (Romans 3:23). And while we live in a fallen world effected by sin, do we have the capacity to choose 'good?' Are teens capable of living lives of integrity? Are we inherently evil? or inherently good? The Dark Knight raises several critical questions!

And the same can be said of Iron Man...Robert Downey Jr's surprise performance and the year's biggest surprise by far. Tony Stark, Downey's character, lives a life of success and luxury as the world's leading weapons manufacturer. But after seeing his weapons and technology in the hands of terrorists begins to question what is 'right' and 'wrong,' and whether he has wasted his life.

Teens face issues of 'right' and 'wrong' on every level...and Iron Man shows the difficulty in sometimes choosing 'right' as Tony Stark is harrassed not only by naysayers but by his closest friends as well.

Take every opportunity to respond to Hollywood's message to your teenager. We must be willing to wrestle with the values being taught in movie theatres! Remember...Christ in culture!

Wednesday, November 5, 2008

text acronyms...

Gone are the days of face-to-face or even over-the-phone conversations...teens text now. And they text anywhere and anytime. With it's growing popularity texting has developed a language all its own. And in effort to keep you in 'the know' with the teens you know and love - below is a short list of common acronyms. Warning...some may be quite scary to swallow!


143 or 459 - I love you
182 - I hate you
CD9 - Code 9, parents are around
F2F - Face to face
HAK - Hugs and kisses
IWSN - I want sex now
KOTL - Kiss on the lips
KPC - Keeping parents clueless
MOS - Mom over shoulder
P911 - Parent alert
PAL - Parents are listening
PAW - Parents are watching
PIR - Parent in room
POS - Parent over shoulder
PRON - Porn
ROTFL - Rolling on the floor laughing
FB - F*** buddy
G2G - Got to go
ILU or ILY - I love you
KFY - Kiss for you
L8R - Later
MOOS - Member of the opposite sex
MOSS - Member of the same sex
TOM - Tomorrow
Kitty - Vagina
Banana - Penis
TDTM - Talk dirty to me

While teens are secretive and will likely never show you their texts...it's helpful to know the lingo. Stay informed!